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Setting Goals
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I subscribe to the
principle that the best way to move forward in life, is to
define your goals and prepare a plan to achieve them. No matter
if your goals are financial, education, love, family, personal
achievement or a combination of all – you should have three
types of goals defined.
They should be Immediate, Mid-Range, and Long Term goals.
Immediate goals should be those that you would like to see
achieved in the next 12 months or less. Mid-Range are the goals
you would like to see achieved within the next five years, and
Long Term goals are those planned for the next ten years.
These goals are like a business’ Mission Statement. Sit down and
think hard about where you want to be at the end of a year, at
the end of five years, and at the end of ten years – and then
write it down. Aim High – but be realistic too. Then take the
paper you wrote the goals on – and put it somewhere private, but
where you will read it each day at about the same time for
self-motivation.
In 1981, I was living in rental duplex house in Batavia, New
York; working at a computer store during the day; going to a
community college at night; and driving a rusty 1975 Pinto
station wagon. I was just starting a family and had grown up in
poverty – so the bigger components of my goals were financially
related then. While I had family, health, personal achievement
and the like in these goals – the Immediate goal included going
into business for myself, the Mid-Range included owning a home
and earning $100,000 a year, and the Long Term was to has a net
worth exceeding $1 million. The goals were actually more complex
than that – but this is an example of at least one of the
components in each of my goals back then. I wrote these goals
down and kept the paper in my night stand. Each morning I would
open the drawer to the night stand and take the two minutes
required to reread my three categories of goals. This was a
great way to start my day pumped and motivated.
Years later, when I was about 40, my Immediate Goal included
selling a business for a home run. Mid-Range was for the wife
and I to visit dozens of Caribbean Islands, and my Long Term
included playing competitive softball until I was 50. As I was
more comfortable financially – my goals turned more to quality
of life than financially related.
Now as I write this with less than two months away from turning
50, my Immediate Goal includes completing our foster child’s
adoption and to make the 6 weeks left to play softball until 50
(despite injuries always taking 10 times longer to heal). My
Mid-Range includes seeing all of my kids through college and
into business; and my Long Term goals includes taking better
care of myself and enter into business partnerships with any of
my five children interested in doing so.
I am currently a Drag Racer now -- along with my eldest daughter
and son who both race too. I now spend most of my
Semi-Retirement preparing for races and traveling to and from
them. Included in my personal achievement goals are the racing
goals of 8-second ¼ miles before hitting 50, a 7-second ¼ mile
for my Mid-Range goal; and to be competitive in the fastest
class of Nostalgia Super Stock until I’m at least 60 for my Long
Term goal.
As you can see, my goals have not just been a financial, a
business, or a personal achievement goal – but the complex
combination of everything I have wanted to achieve for those
periods. In the past my goals have included wanting a nice lake
house, a motorhome, and a Viper GTS; having more time for the
kids; learning to fly an airplane; etc.
Figure out where you would really like to be in 1, 5, and 10
years, and then memorialize it in writing. Once a day reread
your goals to remind yourself of them – and formulate a
reasonable plan to achieve these goals. You have to know where
you want to be, and in what time frame you want to be there –
before you can begin to work on the plan to get there.
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